No the temp gauge was not reading as hot. i had only poped down to the post office and back which is at the most 1.5 mile round trip, so the engine wasent running long enough to get really hot anyway!
my car was running sweet again today, so i am sure it has to be something electrical.
i am gona get a new ECU relay and Fuel pump relay tommorow as other people on this site seem to have had problems with these, they could probably do with been replaced anyway as my car has done 130,000k
Has any1 else got any ideas, especially about the flashing oil light?