Right guys. Not sure if I'm placated or not, but of the way home from work I popped into the dealership and had a half hour with the general sales manager. As it happens, they had become aware of the "issue" over winter pack earlier today when their demo GTI arrived, and when they went to configure a price for it, found they couldn't add winter pack, even thought the GTI had it (with cloth).
Anyway after a good talk, he showed me his order screen from the Wolfsberg factory which said order confirmed with all my toys listed, as well as a provisional build week of WK 26 !!!!
If that's the case then ill be a happy bunny again, as he said in 15 years of working for VW, once the order screen says accepted and a "allocation week" assigned, he has never ever had a vehicle change.
So could be good news after all.
Ooh yes, the GTI they had in was a 5 Door in carbon Grey metallic. I took plenty of photos on my iPhone and ill post them later in a separate thread.