Ok,
Now it's getting EVEN weirder... just went out to the car.
The car will now start without even putting the immobiliser keyfob into the slot as in, the immobiliser doesn't even work now.
EDIT:
Just been outside to the car again as when I was looking at the relay box the other day, it was a complete birds nest behind it!
I had noticed the other day that there was a black cable with an inline fuse just handing there, so, thinking that it was for the old scorpion alarm system which is no more, snipped the loose cable off.
There was also a few other snipped cables behind there, which, look snipped I.E. no exposed ends.
There was one however, a black cable, that did have an exposed end and it didn't occur to me this morning thinking about this immobiliser malarkey that maybe perhaps it had something to do with it.
Thinking that car started even without the immobiliser and no flashy red light on the fob front, lead me to think that the immobiliser wasn't actually working.
So, I went out there with a multimeter and tested between the black cable I snipped and this black cable that had the exposed end. Turns out there was 12V between them, so I figured theres a fuse, whats the harm in connecting them.
So I rewire this fuse end to the stripped cable that comes out from the back of the fuse box and the other end of the fuse to the cable I snipped. I gingerly, placed the fuse in the holder and screwed the 2 together successfully with no pops or bangs.
I look up, turn the key to start and nothing! So the immobiliser is working again, but, the car will still start without relay 30 BUT only after placing my keyfob in the holder.
I'm thinking that perhaps the black cable somehow worked loose from the inline fuse turning off the immobiliser and that perhaps, parasitically, the ecu was drawing power from the immobiliser hence why it will still run without relay 30 in.
So, I will put relay 30 back in and take it for a spin and see if I break down!