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Offline Nino

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Advice about moving out
« on: 15 February 2013, 08:00 »
Hey guys, as silly as it may sound to many of you this year I finally plan to move out at the ripe old age of 28. I wont go into the reason as to why im still living at home as they are personal but I was hoping I could get some advice and I wont lie im scared to take the step.

I will be moving in with my girlfriend and for the first 6 months/year I plan to rent reason behind this is because I have seen many happy relationships crash after people start to live together and I dont want to drive into a morgage and this happen, I basically want to know that we can live together if that makes sence?

We have looked at how much together we can afford inc bills and we are thinking about £1000 PCM between us anything more than this and we will fall into that trap where you have no money for leasure time :(

we Also know that location in which we want to move as it is directly 15 miles between each others jobs so its fair :)

I suppose what I am asking is similar to when you first buy a car, when we start viewing houses to rent what should we be looking for? what question should we be asking etc? and I also know that many estate agents will just be after our money and not have a care in the world for our welfare. I have had a few tips already such as:

  • check around the windows for signs of damp.
  • if you like the house go back at after school time and mornings etc to see what the area is like at busy times.
  • someone said to speak to the nieghbours ask them about the area.

Any advice would be brilliant guys, Thankyou :)
« Last Edit: 15 February 2013, 08:02 by Nino »

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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #1 on: 15 February 2013, 09:01 »
Make sure the letting agent is an established and respected one. Have a look online to see if there are any forums (I'm sure there will be) where people have posted in your rough area as to who are best and who to avoid. This is just as important as the house imo. I let my house out 8 months ago, and there have been two instances where my letting agent has been diabolical. I should have done the same, and I really feel for my tenant. I'm in Hampshire now, and the house in question is in Plymouth. A couple of months after moving in, the tenant reported the conservatory leaking. I didn't find out until four weeks later, instructed the agency to fix it and take money from what was held back for maintenance. They basically let themselves into the house and the tenant came back to find two blokes in her house! It's illegal and should not have been done, but they hid behind it being regarded as an emergency, even though it was reported as Avery minor leak. The next one is the fence has blown down at the back. This happened just before Xmas. We did a spot check last month, and that was the first time we knew anything about it. Our tenant is lovely and she has been very patient, and the house was spotless, so we need to keep her onside. After countless phone calls and unreturned messages left, I finally managed to get hold of the bloke who is managing it, and screamed down the phone at him! I ended up getting the number of the company who provided a quote that they had not passed to me or even informed me about, home fans phoned them and they start Monday now. The six month contract expires at the end of the month where it moves to a monthly rolling contract. I am now in discussion with other agents to manage the property. We went with them as they made all the right noises, and were the cheapest. Just remember it's not always the landlord who is responsible for delays etc!
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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #2 on: 15 February 2013, 11:14 »
Make sure the letting agent is an established and respected one. Have a look online to see if there are any forums (I'm sure there will be) where people have posted in your rough area as to who are best and who to avoid. This is just as important as the house imo. I let my house out 8 months ago, and there have been two instances where my letting agent has been diabolical. I should have done the same, and I really feel for my tenant. I'm in Hampshire now, and the house in question is in Plymouth. A couple of months after moving in, the tenant reported the conservatory leaking. I didn't find out until four weeks later, instructed the agency to fix it and take money from what was held back for maintenance. They basically let themselves into the house and the tenant came back to find two blokes in her house! It's illegal and should not have been done, but they hid behind it being regarded as an emergency, even though it was reported as Avery minor leak. The next one is the fence has blown down at the back. This happened just before Xmas. We did a spot check last month, and that was the first time we knew anything about it. Our tenant is lovely and she has been very patient, and the house was spotless, so we need to keep her onside. After countless phone calls and unreturned messages left, I finally managed to get hold of the bloke who is managing it, and screamed down the phone at him! I ended up getting the number of the company who provided a quote that they had not passed to me or even informed me about, home fans phoned them and they start Monday now. The six month contract expires at the end of the month where it moves to a monthly rolling contract. I am now in discussion with other agents to manage the property. We went with them as they made all the right noises, and were the cheapest. Just remember it's not always the landlord who is responsible for delays etc!

this is good solid advise, letting agents OR middle men are pretty much useless, and generally aint interested unless their pockets are getting lined.

general things to think about when your looking to move into a place:

  • is it a noisy/busy road.
  • which way does it face (N,S,E,W) i.e. what time do certain rooms get the sun.
  • whats the hot water pressure like.
  • how is the place heated.
  • does the garden need a lot of maintenance (some rentals stipulate in the contract the tenant maintains the garden.
  • Security - Alarm, locks, double glazing. (whats the area like for crime/anti social behavior)

you mentioned the obvious, looking for damp. the agent will make sure the place looks good, so any mould will have been cleaned etc... when viewing check for cold spots, particularly external walls.

blimey i could go on, but it's all just common sense really.

hope this helps.

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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #3 on: 15 February 2013, 11:26 »
Not sure if its of interest to you but you may also want to take broadband speeds onto consideration as well. Nothing worse than suddenly getting a line put in only to find your getting 0.5 mbps. Also if your tied into a mobile phone contract make sure signal is okay where you intend to move to as you would have to buy out the contract if you don't get coverage.
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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #4 on: 15 February 2013, 15:53 »
dont do it, stay at home as long as you can. haha

I bought my own house 4 years ago as as much as i love it, and am happily (soon to be) married, i cant help thinking how much better off i would be, financially, if i still lived with my parents. :-)
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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #5 on: 15 February 2013, 16:01 »
dont do it, stay at home as long as you can. haha

Best advice ive seen all day haha

You mentioned going to see the street you fancy at night and someone also mentioned is it a busy street.

Best thing to do would be take a drive to the street you wanna move to around 10pm on a friday or saturday night. Park up and sit for about half an hour. This will serve 2 purposes.....you will find out if you can park on your street after working hours (unless your getting a place with a drive) and 2 you will find out if there is any yob neighbours blaring music.

The reason i mentioned about broadband, mobile signal, noisy neighbours and parking is because me and the missus jumped into it first time round and ended up never able to park at our own house, changing mobile network, had a full on scrap with a neighbour for 7 night a week parties till stupid oclock but worst of all was i kept getting my a$$ handed to me on Call of duty becuase of stupid broadband speeds.

We've now moved  :grin:
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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #6 on: 15 February 2013, 16:42 »
This may be obvious but bear in mind that although you want to rent first to make sure that you can live together, renting a place can make it EXTREMELY difficult to save up to put a deposit on a place of your own so you could end up renting indefinatley... :sick:
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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #7 on: 15 February 2013, 16:44 »
Another thing to do is try and get an idea what the neighbours are like. The states of the front gardens will often give you an idea.  :smiley:



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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #8 on: 15 February 2013, 19:50 »
Is there no way you can get the GF to move in you with you where your at? like said above the money your going to be out in paying rent could go towards buying a house and you'll also spend money getting the place you rent into the way you want it to then move out and leave it all behind.



Ps, You can kiss good bye to being able to go out and buy what ever parts you fancy next for the car. You'll have to plan it better.  :cry:

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Re: Advice about moving out
« Reply #9 on: 15 February 2013, 23:23 »
Some great tips here guys and I totally get what your saying about money etc the thing is I don't want to leave it much longer as I'm 28 and I need my own place lol.

The place (area) we are looking at is very nice area it's a small village and most of the people living there are settled and abit old lol one thing I have made my mind up on is the property has to have a drive or a garage for my car :D

I know this is not going to be easy but I have to grow up and bite the bullet I want kids by the time I'm 35 and that's only 7 years away for me  :huh: and before I bring any kids into the world I need to know I can support a home :) keep the tips coming guys there brilliant.

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