Now to get her down the gym to get back to pre-first pregnancy weight 
ouch!
Hope she takes that better than i did just reading it!! My boyfriends lucky, im 2.5st lighter than when we got together, but if anything it makes things worse, i'm now weight/food obsessed and it drives him mad!
She did take it well, yes

she was loosing the weight before she got pregnant this last time, I'm going to have to shell out £50 a month for a gym membership at the same gym I get for free (work perks).
As long as you maintain a healthy weight and you're happy, that's all that matters Han