Before you fit a new arm, you must chase out every last bit of aluminium from the splines, or the same will happen again! use a Stanley blade, and run the pointed end into the spline to clear...
When you fit the new arm, if possible, heat the end as hot as possible without damaging it, to expand the mounting point, fit and get the nut and washer on as fast as you can, as it cools, it'll become even tighter...
Then always make sure your wiper arm has not stuck to the windscreen with ice, before you operate your wipers...
Thom