Reason to replace with a Forge unit or simlar is simple, the standard bosch one is made of plastic and what has happened to yours is a common fault, so replace it with a forge unit and you shouldn't get this problem again.
My understanding of it is that a diverter, instead of releasing the pressure back into the atmosphere like a dump valve, releases it back into the system (so sort of recycles the pressure).
I think if yours is leaking, the ECU will try to compensate for the loss of presure by forcing more air in, so it could be working overtime to compensate, although this might only be in extreme cases, or I could be talking complete rubbish, i'm sure someone else can help you more

I've only owned my 1.8t for 2 days, so i'm in the same boat as you, although mine doesn't give this "chattering" sound, you can hear a faint dump valve, probably the pressure being released though the intake.