Total thumbs up to Alex (Redbaron), within 24 hours of posting my woes, Alex came to my rescue and fixed the car.  It turned out to be a blown fuse for the fuel pump I think he said. ÂÂÂ
Many thanks for your help Alex, much appreciated ÂÂÂ

Victoria.
PS: RichandHazel, I am all fixed up now and back on the road.  However I want to thank you for your kind offer to come round and rectify the problem.  I'll keep your number though - The car is as old as me, I have problems tooÂÂÂ

so should any more arise with the VW I'll be texting you or Alex for your expert help again - so long as thats alright with you?
Thanks to all those who responded.  Happy girl now!