Get your sensors from vwspares.co.uk as they're tried + tested. About 3quid each, replace all 3 on the side of the head and re-crimp new spade connectors all wires. You can swap the red/yellow guage sensor wire onto 1 of the other 2 to see if you have much of a difference between the 3. Or if you have a multimeter and can test the resistance across each one at various temps then try this and record the values. Halfway is about right though, and if that's its 'normal' position and oil temps are again 'normal' then you've possibly nothing to worry about