do you know for fact you need the tower? only asking as I have the mk4 tower on my 02a and am still using 02a cables so surely it will work the other way as well?
The Mk4 tower is simply better, less slop and the shift weight is a different size/shape.
Don't the cables connect differently too?
Certainly the 02J tower I have is quite different to the 02A tower and the cable connections are slighly different - 02A needs adjustment, 02J is self adjusting.
It also gives you the option of fitting the TT linkages to get the OEM short-shift.
If you are going to grab the lot, why would you not take the gearbox end too?