Spot on pics! Go for the mk2 VR6 for sure 
If you get a new steering wheel make sure it is connected properly 
No way would have to be turbo don't like this petrol situation with the vr lol, sounds nice as fcuk but ££££££ to run

Ye would only get oem wheel, like Lupo or polo, plus iwoulndt put it on.
Good to meet u mate, shame u didn't bring yours over