You know what, when I'm with a girl, I start to think that things are building up around me, jobs on the car, other things to do, hobbies not being done. Sometimes it can make me feel a bit suffocated. But then on the flip side, you miss her when she's gone.
Without reading 6 odd pages nail on the head there really. I guess I'm lucky that my gf doesn't mind my car hobby too much - rolls her eyes etc but nothing heavy, spend what I want etc and she knows what it means to me as I was a car nut before I was with her. Always says she prefers me to be into cars than other activities like footy etc. Everybody should have a hobby separate from their partner IMO, not healthy to do EVERYTHING together.
Having said all that I'd probably chuck it all in for her (hope she doesn't read this
). Pro's and cons to single life and being in a relationship - get the best out of whichever situation you're in and you're laughing