Hi All,
Just thought I would update this thread with my experiences.
I had the cutting out issue and replaced the ECU relay, everything was fine for 6000 miles (6 months) until I changed the oil and it started cutting out again. It made sense that i may have disturbed the wiring of the crankshaft sensor, I bought a new one from a local motor factor for £43 and replaced it. It certainly needed replacing, the wire close to the sensor was corroded and falling apart.
We are now 20,000 miles (2.5 years) on, and unfortunately it has just started cutting out again.
Seems to be in different circumstances this time though, before it could happen at 70mph on the motorway, now it is slowing down for junctions, traffic lights, roundabouts etc.
At first I was wondering whether a pattern part may have been a mistake - the routing for the crankshaft wiring gets very hot. However I plugged in the VAG COM and no faults, so perhaps I will look at cleaning the throttle body etc next.
Andy