To work out the length you need i would put a standard bolt through a standard wheel and see how much it protrudes.
Whatever that measurement is it needs to be the same after you add the spacer.
So,for instance.If your standard bolt has a threaded part that is say 40mm long and 20mm of that thread protrudes through the back of the wheel you would need bolts with a 60mm threaded portion to use with 20mm spacers and 65mm for the 25mm spacers.
Do'nt forget that MK3 GTi uses M14 thread (5 stud) ,all other MK3's use M12 (4 stud).