DRLs aren't for illumination - they're for awareness. Much in the same way motorbikes often have their headlamps on. They have to be in specific locations and meet certain specifications.
Hella do a set of DRLs for the Mk5 and Redrobin is someone who's used them early on. Might be worth contacting him as he has done tonnes of research into this. They are bright without dazzling. Importantly, they turn off when you turn on any other lights including sidelights. If you flash your mainbeams, they turn off during that flash.
Besides, if you need fogs on as "extra" illumination, get better bulbs for the headlights. Foglights are designed to penetrate fog, rather than bounce back and increase the opaqueness of the fog.