Thanks for all the comments guys
Well, local dealer has tried to get hold of an R for me to drive from VW uk and the press office - no joy
They are offering me a drive in the Scirroco R, but I dont think that would be any use. Even if it did drive and feel the same I couldn't bring myself to crawl into the thing.
And its starting to dawn on me that the car I really want, may be the one I already have :embarassed: