am1w- I assume you are telling me to stay with a manual box. 
On a Golf R, I would go with the DSG, 100%.
It also suits the GTD very well.
I am split 50/50 between manual and DSG on a GTi.
I chose the manual as: (a) it was £1330 cheaper and (b) I am more used to manual gearboxes and like the greater control over the car.