OK cheers, I thought my relay would have like 30, 87 etc on it, then I wouldnt be stuck, but it has 1 2 3 4 on it. That relay in that link is set up exactly the same as mine.
On the ms diagram it has got battery going to 30 , ign 80 earth trigger 85 then 87 for the injectors and ms ecu, I can just join them two up together cant I? So have thicker wire coming out of the relay then splits into two ways with smaller wire. Im going to get a new wire from the battery to feed the relay, so what size fuse and thickness wire should I use for that ? Oh john, on that pole vaults, which spade bits do I need as there is quite a few but none say like gripped or anything?
www.polevolt.co.uk Thanks, If that is how I wire up the relay then that sounds easy

Also would this 3 way plug fit onto my tps plug? Or do I need a vag plug.