About 6 months ago I got in a bit of a rage and dented the one panel on the car that was in mint condition

It's the drivers side rear quarter, so not a nice easy one to replace.
Basically, I punched it at a bit of an angle (and instantly felt bad about it). The cross section of the dent looks a little like ----^___---
The raised bit is what worries me. I have tried gently knocking it back in with a piece of plastic to try and avoid damaging the paint, but I have decided to respray it anyway, so not so worried.
I have tried the heating and freezing trick to see if it pops back into place, but nothing changed. I can't get to the back easily without taking out the pillar. Would I be better off bashing it in a bit, and then filling it for the respray? Or would it work out better to get a professional to have a look? The dent itself is about 4cm in diameter, with the crease at one side.
Cheers.