Hi msond,
I had exactly the same symptoms on my 1992 16v. I took it to two Main VW dealers and one specialist Bosch fuel injection specialist. All of them diagnosed it to be the slow idle adjustment. All of them adjusted this and all of them had the same result - no change and no improvement.
Out of desperation I took it to a local independent VW/Audi service outfit and after listening to me declared that the 'slow idle adjustment' needed setting up - NO I said, and explained that everyone else had adjusted that with no change. No, they said, we think its definitley the slow idle adjustment. They took the car into their workshop and undid the slow idle adjuster and inspected it - it was 'clagged up' with all manner of deposits presumably from many years of use. They cleaned the clag off the end of the needle, re-inserted it and started her. 100% success and I've never had a problem since.
Needless to say they look after my car now and I never take my car to a VW dealer anymore, if only the lazy so and so's had bothered to inspect and clean the part they were adjusting.
So, if you want to try it yourself I suggest you locate the slow idle valve which is (I think) adjacent to the slow idle microswitch (looks like a 'brassy' material), undo it - carefully counting how many turns it takes, clean the end of the valve with a suitable non-aggressive cleaning fluid and re-insert it to the same amount of turns as you took it out (obvious that bit I know). I hope it works for you, certainly the stalling symptoms you describe were exactly like mine. Kind regards, yt.