hi penguin,
the forge spacer valve does not have any performance gains it just gives that blow off sound, some like it some dont..
regarding the dv valve, you will have to check what revision you have - G is the older type found on cars 07 onwards which has been known to fail, D is the new oem piston valve which is alot more robust and so far I believe none have failed even when running 400 bhp+. if you have the new tsi engine as found in the mk6 then it is not guaranteed you will have the new D piston type valve as some in the usa are still reporting having the G valve in 2010 cars
you will need to check, on the ed30 it is conveniently located at the front of the engine bay but not sure on the mk6
i am running the forge and its a nice bit of kit, imo it holds boost a slightly better than the D valve which I had on before. though the D valve is only £45 compared to £100+ for forge