Thats what I thought, hence why I raised this post. They're going to see if they can find another 16v inlet which should have the gaskets, if not, like you said, I'm not keen to use silicone and I doubt my mechanic will either.
It's taken them over 4 weeks to get this far.....!! after originally being only told a week, 2 at the most and I've been with out my car for over 5 weeks and am getting really pi$$ed off and to be quite honest, just want my car back. Can anybody suggest anyway to get around this without the gaskets. Also my mot runs out on the 15th, so u can understand my desperation.