right, I have been out and checked measurements again from centre of the wheel to the highest point of the arch (on the plastic arch trim, not the metal bit behind the plastic arch trim) and also checked top mount heights, which are the same.
Front drivers side 320mm
front passenger side 345mm
rear drivers side 310mm
rear passenger side 305mm
(done by eye and tape measure, so there could be 5mm either way - but the fronts still seem quite far out)
Bounced each corner of the car, all sounds ok apart from the front passenger side which makes this odd sound sort of like something is catching on something, it all bounces like the other corners, just makes the odd noise (its not a loud noise either, cant notice it from inside the car when driving etc)
havent had chance to jack the car up to look if the spring is sat in the cup properly yet as its got a bit too dark to see now. What else could it be other than the spring not sitting in the cup right?