I'm waiting for my Golf R which is now a build week 9 - and likely to be with me mid - late March.
I specced the 19" wheels, which seemed like a good idea at the time.
Just now I've been given a shot of a Daihatsu Terios (kind of like a Rav 4 for those who have no idea what it is!!) which is fine as a run around - and has nice big meaty 4x4 style tyres on it!
With the recent snow and ice, the roads are pot hole hell - and its difficult to drive anywhere... even on main roads without encountering pot holes that put a shock right up your spine! On the Terios, this doesn't cause too much problem as the tyres have a huge profile. On the 19" wheels I have on order - this is going to be hell! 35mm between them and the wheel

I'm hoping in another 8 weeks the council will have got their fingers out and filled in / resurfaced most of the main roads - but I'm not holding my breath. It makes me feel pretty worried, as a friend had to replace 2 alloys at the weekend as they both got buckled on a pot hole. The council will apparently refund you £100 per wheel - but a new R wheel / tyre will probably cost about £500+.
I'm in two minds already to order a set of winter wheels / tyres - and get an old set of 16" / 17" wheels with winter tyres... and just put them straight on the car until the main pot hole situation is cleared up. Will any Golf wheels fit, or do they have to be a certain offset?
I'm guessing that a 19" wheel with profile 35, means an 18" with 45, 17" with 55, and 16" with 65?
It'd seem such a shame to have the new car with manky looking wheels - but I'd rather than than destroy the new wheels within the first few weeks!