the part in the pic is the actual insert, unfortunalty there are 2 available depending on the year. But judging from the fact they have melted I'm, pretty sure you have the ealier ones, the later ones are all brass I believe, but unfortunatly the early ones are discontinued

The late ones are:
063 133 555 A - 3.77
But I am unsure if they'll actually fit in the head, I have seen discussions in the past that suggest they do not. 16v use the same inserts as above and these are made of brass, so see if you can get one try.
the part # you have there is correct for the actual seal
