I had this dilemma, was looking to get out of my cooper S, didnt care about the fact i had to make money u for negative equity.
Mate has a GTI and its awesome to drive, was sold on one untill he told me to look at the prices of the R32's, for the sake of the extra fuel (im a full tank a week) and 40 per month road tax (i put it away monthly) im happy.
ED30s are still holding their prices so the R seemed logical for me once i had test drove one and enjoyed it so much.
At the end of the day whether its a GTI, ED30 or R32 we own cars that we want everyone will have reasons for their choice.
Chris