Im sorry for saying now if i have fu*ked things by speaking here, but surely everyone going on at josho, maybe his old man wanted the blokes addy? If some one had done me over, i would be like that, even if he had a appologised. So maby it wasnt as sinister as first thought??
Maybe completely wrong tho and josho is v v stupid.
not sure what you are trying to say in the first part of your message but in response to the second part... Josho isn't very very stupid, he is young and blissfully naive and perhaps has the trust that we should all be able to have, but sadly, due to others being deceitful, cannot be.
Josho is proving to be a very intelligent and pro-active forum member, just don't want the young man to lose any more money.