OK, my plan is:
10AWG from battery to project box that contains two relays. One for high one for low. Then take the harness out of left headlight, and use the high and low power cables to trigger the relays.
Then from the relay straight to a distribution block of some kind, still 10 or 12 AWG then distributed to 12AWG for both headlights, running above the radiator, to the right headlight.
Then grounding them to the battery.
See if it makes a difference, put it on the drive front ways to take comparison photos.