I'm curious to know if anyone allows the turbo to cool down before turning ignition off etc either by letting it tickover for a while or just easing off the throttle when nearing their destination.
I allways do, and I also let it warm up properly too. As Rhyso stated, you should really be taking it very easy for the last half mile or so - and by taking it easy, be in the highest posible gear, using the lowest possible revs, and very light throttle openings. You can still cruise along at 60mph (where the law permits!

) - but just keep the car in 6th gear, and never use more than half throttle.
Oh, and never, EVER 'blip' the throttle before turning the engine off.
I've had a few Jap motors in the past which always needed the above TLC to save gasket's going etc. However I've heard (what only can be described as a rumour) that VAG motors are able to continue pumping oil round after the ignition has been turned off. Therefore removing the need to let it cool down on tickover etc.
Nope, as ub7rm states, the GTI is only able to reverse pump the engine coolant after the engine is turned off. But this should NOT be used as a substitute for proper turbo cool down. Whilst the coolant is being pumped around, it continues to absorb a continued build up of heat from the engine (heat soak), but there is actually no air flow through the radiators, so it isnt actually being cooled (unless it is close to boiling, but then the big cooling fans will be running).
It is best to think of this after-run coolant pump as a 'life-jacket'. You wouldn't go on a channel ferry, and expect it to capsize, but think you will be perfectly fine because you have a life jacket!
I'm very interested in hearing if anyone has any constructive answers to the above. I can imagine that I wont ever really run into any problems from not following the above MYSELF, but I may well save someone else the hassle later on (car hasnt done enough miles yet).
Trouble is, turbos will generally take quite a lot of 'mildly poor abuse' before going pete tong. But weather they last 5k miles or 50k miles, they are still expensive to replace!