Yeah, it took a bit of convincing from me to the guy I was getting the guage off too - had a debate for 5 minutes. He just kept saying, how is 1/8th of an inch 10mm - oh well

There's oodles of guides for these gauges, how is there any confusion?

The audi oil pressure gauge needs its own specific sender. If its a 10bar gauge, it needs a 10bar sender. You can't use the exisiting one on the engine as this is for the low pressure buzzer/warning light and is incompatible. However, you get the bonus of a twin pole pressure sender from the Audi which has both the connector for the guage (G) and for the dash (WK).

The oil temp is the same story, if you want to maintain the MFA readout on your dash, then you need to get a T piece. As the oil temp sensor from the Audi isn't twin pole - it means that you have to get a 1/8 NPT (M10 x 1) T piece, then screw your original MFA sensor in, and the Audi gauge sensor in.
Then you just route the wires back to the cabin. The +ve and -ve can be taken off a relay from the IGN/GND on the fusebox and the blue wire from the cig lighter as a trigger.
The theory is that almost any sender will work with any gauge as its all just based on resistance - so if you buy a universal sender off ebay that can read up to 10 bar - theory says it should work with any 5 bar gauge, or infact anything up to 10 bar. I'm not speaking from personal experience, however.