I concur with Gav - go for the Infinity numbers - the juice look good, but at 120wrms, you will need an amp to power them from day one; underpowered speakers get wrecked just as quick as over powered ones.
The Infinities will get enough power (just) from a decent, high-power head unit, but will still have the capability to be amplified as and when funds allow.
As for head units, again, I have to agree with gav - I really don't like the sound Sony output. I've never been a fan.
Personally I am a big fan of Alpine, Pioneer and Kenwood (in that order).
I would suggest you get into some audio stores, listen to some gear, then try and find it online - sound really is subjective; what one person loves another will hate, so rather than basing your purchasing solely on recommendations, I'd advise you get out and play with some kit, see what you like.
Oh, and in answer to your original question regarding powering the fronts with the front and rear outputs of the head unit - the answer is an empahtic no - each channel ouput of the headunit is designed to 'see' a specific load or impedance (measured in Ohms). If you start altering the impedance/load you run your equipment outside of its operational envelope and end up cooking it.