1. Yep it will get a little tighter, you can keep fiddling about with em but its very tricky to get it perfect.
2. I'm not sure, I think you need to use relays to make it work, someone should be able to help out with this

Though I think some CL mechanisims have a specific set of wires for hooking to an alarm, might be worth checking the wiring diagram!
3. You need a central locking boot mech and lock, as on a boot with CL there is a 3rd key position which activates the boot lock with the central locking, and theres a push/pull rod setup which you can fit your solonoid to

You can also do the same thing with the petrol flap, but you need to swap the flap with one from a car with central locking, and you need the CL flap mech from inside the boot. Look up a recent post by Haribo as he took handy photos of it
