It learns the new style of driving in about 30 seconds.
Sorry, but it takes quite a bit longer than that. Just like engine ECUs, the DSG ECU needs a couple of cycles of 'power down' to 'remember' the 'user' settings. I think you may be getting confused with the general adaptive shift pattern - which will happen irrespective of any 'learned' user style settings.
What the hell is "general adaptive shift pattern"

I have found that while driving in "D" and driving sedately, upon wanting to then drive more aggresively the car will kick-down a gear or multiple gears and begin changing gears higher up the rev range - it will do this and learn this new style very quckily after a few kick-down's. This, in my oppinion, is what makes "D" effective as a half-way-house to the full manual and a full auto box - adapting to those conditions where MPG is important/performance not important and yet able to adapt again for those times when performance is required/MPG not so important.
Back to my point, if I then begin to drive sedately just a few seconds after this, the box will maintain the higher rev gear changes - expecting me to drive in the same manner as the aggresive style. HOWEVER, after a short period of time, on the same journey, it will revert back to the more sedate early gear changes.
Surely the above is evidence how quick the system is at learning a change in driving style?