Thanks, but of no use. I have tried to decipher the info on that thread many times today already. The fuse box list is straight forward and is listed clearly in my user handbook, but there is nothing in there which shows the relay bay.
The link which you kindly provided does provide a few blurred photos of the relays but these are impossible to interpret.
I have asked for this info on numerous fora and sites but the answers have been mind boggling...
...I think it might be relay number 13, but it could be numbers 8 or 11,
...I don't think there is a relay, but I could be wrong,
...my mate had this problem and he says it is relay number 3,
...why would anyone ever own a car THAT old?
Thanks again for your reply, I might just go out and buy one of those mechanical arms to hang off my door.