Have to agree with various points.
I love driving, and to spend time driving on the back roads is great. But I'd rather not do it with a group of people.
Derbyshire, Yorkshire, Wales, Scotland, all have great driving roads when you know where they are, but too far for me to go just for a day of driving, especially because I'd have to spend at least 3 hours on boring motorway to get to them. Nevermind the fuel cost.
Being a member of GolfGTI.co.uk but not wanting to go on a run doesn't mean I like cars any less than someone from the Rover 800 forum. I joined to find information, share the enthusiam for a particular car, share experience, learn something, enjoy people's projects and photos and get something out of it.
However, interacting on this site can be done while it's quiet at work, or on nightshifts and doesn't take precious time away from my wife and family. Which is why I don't do shows or meets. Any spare time I have, my priority is my family. If my wife was into cars or GTIs, then maybe I'd be able to do a show or something, but with a tight budget, if we have money to go away for the weekend, a show wouldn't be the first choice.
Cars are only one of my interests and I have other things that take up more time and are slightly higher in the priority order for money.
So, if I had the money and time and an understanding family, maybe I would go to the Pennines just for a fun drive. But I still wouldn't do it with a group. I like the open road in front of me, nothing in my rear view mirror and the choice to go where I like.