Ok here I go with my first post

I am looking to change my current car which is a Mitsubishi Evo VIII MR FQ340, reason being my wife has decided she wants a Lotus Elise S instead of her Mini Cooper S, so basically I was due a change but to have two hard core cars just isn't practical (and I fancy the Lotus as its fantastic, pure drivers car and sooo much fun to drive).
Anyway I have been looking at a compromise for me and so far have shortlisted the following, all new.
Golf GTI SE30 - Felt nimble, fairly quick, handled well, chipped i know your looking at 300-315bhp which is very appealing. Getting on the expensive side for the performance side by side with its rivals.
Focus ST - Felt nimble, not as nimble as the SE30 but a lot of fun and felt quicker than the SE30, cabin noise was very addictive, again chipped i here makes them pretty rapid.
Focus RS (the new one thats out 2009, so I would have to sit tight for while) - This is difficult because its not out and there will be a waiting list, the thought of this car excites me though as Ford RS know what they are doing, will it be to hard core though?
Megane R26 - Fantastic handling, felt the fastest, great fun and very good value, i like the look of it as well. Fairly hard core but I could live with it.
Cars I have ruled out
Golf R32 - Too much for what it is, didn't feel nimble or faster than the SE30 and the engine felt lazy, i am a turbo fan though!!
Civic Type R (new shape) - God awful car, zero torque and dont like the way it looks so I dont know why I test drove one to be honest, it is cheap though...
Golf GTI - Haven't test drove one but think it will be too much of a power decrease for me, even chipped. I could be wrong though.
Audi S3 - Again the performance and handling didn't justify the cost over less expensive rivals
Seat Cupra FR thingy, whatever its called - nah its not going to happen
Astra VXR - Great fun if its not yours is the only comment i have about that car
Anyway what are your thoughts ladies and gentlemen?