Went into the local dealer on Saturday and had a chat, turns out the salesman i was talking to knows my old man, need to see if i can get some freebies. I never realised this until i spoke to him but due to the huge waiting list all your really doing when you place an order is booking a place in the production line, so right up until about 2-3 weeks before the car is due to be built you can change just about anything you like. This made things a bit easier for me as it gives me loads of time to get a shot in a dsg and decide if i prefer it to the manual. Just now they recon i should get it in time for the new 08 reg but wont know for sure until they've put the order in and had word back from VW.
For now i've gone for a Diamond Black 3dr, Manual, 18" Monzas, Bi-xenons, highline, arm rest, cruise control and the electric folding mirror option.
It's going to be a long 5 months