ok well, after finally getting my vag-com obd cable through in the post yesterday, ive finally been able to hook my laptop up and diagnose the fault on my car. turns out its a dodgy engine speed sensor, which is good news as i know whats wrong with it now but bad news is that its gonna cost me 40 notes to replace.
anyway heres the error i got from vag-com:
00513 - engine speed sensor (G28)
27-10 - implausible signal - intermittant
hope anyone else with the same problem goes down the route of getting hold of vag-com and a cable as its saved me the £75 vw want just to do the same thing

bunter