More condolences mate - but I have experience of handling written off cars - Strip it back to standard (stereos, alloys, speakers, new trim, lights etc....), the insurance company may offer you the value of the car, less the scrap value - take this offer, and try and sell the car on to a VW breaker, or, to someone for spares - you should get a lot more this way - I managed to make an extra 50% on top of the value of my car when my BMW was crumpled.