Not sure about wheels on white, they look a little like the A3 Sline ones of which the Nogaro turned my head far more and one of reasons went the GTD wy, but love the wheels on the blue and the blue itself is colour I would have by choice out of all that VW offer.
Having said all that, and I understand the mention of is it aggressive enough, but as a fan of understated with hints of what is on offer, I love the R completely with the peformance and all the little additions an R offers.
However do think the GTD and GTI do not lie behind it at all in looks stakes.