Forget the ecu for now.The abs light comes on when one sensor fails.If you ignore that and another sensor fails the handbrake light will stay on as well.If any other sensors fail after that nothing else will light up as VW think you should have got the message by now.

My advice,change all 4 sensors,buy a code reader and once fitted reset all faults.Total cost on ebay about £45 all in.
You will probably have to destroy all the old sensors to get them out though !.They arev held in by torx headed screws and rust.
If that fails and your wiring is good then look at ecu but in my experience it very rarely fails.