Sounds like your methods dont seem to mix well with the 20vt lump.
Get back to basics, get everything running right, then sort your map out. Stop messing round with N75 valves that make no difference and get a KNOWN WORKING one from the dealers or TPS. Set your actuator up correctly with 3 turn preload and get somewhere reliable to map it with the forge actuator with uprated spring. Anywhere that says they cant do it, walk away from.
What mods you have already? What engine code is it?