If it was me ide be usin the mk3 subframe and front cross member. Then the vr mounts are there already. Just need a solid front mount and get 2 new rear mounts. Pm me if u have any other questions buddy and ill give you my number. Ill help as much as possible.
I know what ur sayin about the 1 day a week, I don't even get that and my cars where I work. Haha
I'm sure a standard mk3 vr6 cross member wont fit, you'll need either:
- a mk2 cross member with solid conversion mount (like the OP has), or
- a mk2 cross member, with the centre cut out, and a mk3 cross member centre welded in, or
- a corrado vr6 cross member (can be difficult to get hold of)