You're speaking sh*te
Mini 1130kg
Golf3 16V 1140kg
Golf4 1290kg
Bigger car, more weight.
You want a car that's 'chuckable' but will hold up in a crash.
At the budget you must have, if you have one, you're unlikely to get the other.
Earn more, or deal with it.
The other option is to strip back some of the soundproofing on your (presumably) Golf4, refresh all the suspension bushes and engine mounts and fit some proper replacement suspension and a rear ARB.
I don't think you have the money for that.
The MINI felt 'chuckable' because it had rear independent suspension (Z-axle). Your Golf4 (I'm assuming that's what you have) has a torsion beam rear axle. Never going to be as good.
Go get a Golf5 GTI. That will be chuckable like the MINI. Oh hang on, you're only 20 and skint. You can't afford one.
So go get a Golf2. That's chuckable, but you will need to spend money on the chassis to refresh and restore it and there's the budget issue (and probably the insurance issue) again.
You have found a lower level of living standard. This probably sucks.
I don't have the money right now no, but as I'm in a new job I'm saving.
Yes I'm only 20 but insurance isn't too bad, it's come down a lot. I passed my test 7 weeks after my 17th.
I nearly have 3 years no claims and I've not got any convictions or had any accidents.
I'm aware the Golf 4 is never going to be my many but I blew all my money from my parents on my Cooper S when I was 18, spent around £3000 modding it and over £4000 insuring it.
Now I realise how f*****g stupid I was and utterly regret it!
I guess In have to suffer the consequences of being impatient!
My budget currently is around £1000. But I'm putting away 200 - 300 now to get my self a "fun" car again.
Not sure wether to throw it a the golf or just buy a second car to have fun with.
I'd like a stripped car that I could use for track days.
I've never done track days other than the Nurburgring in the Mini.