Barbera,
Im having very similar issues at the mo and like you its doing my head in, have you had your car plugged into vag-com?
Worth the money to get it done to be honest! saves changing parts that are ok!
issues with mine -
cutting out ( random stalling )
wont idle very well
wont rev past 5000rpm
had it vag-commed last week the errors - air mass sensor, lambda probe
changed air mass sensor - started to rev all the way around to 6000rpm ( lasted a day!!! )
changed lambda sensor - stopped the random cutting out!!!
change relays - 167 and 30 did nothing!
found some broken cables from the air mass sensor to the lambda probe, re-soldered think i wasted my money on the new lambda probe but ah well!
still not idiling or reving past 500o rpm... gonna get in plugged in again this week.
im sure this will be a very straight forward fix, lots of people seem to have had the same problem but no one really knows what it is!!!grrrrr. keep me posted if you have any joy!!!