Made a bit more progress today

B and Q angle grinder (£9.99) set of googles and some grinding discs,and away i went on the rear lips.
Managed to get the car drivable with no rubbing issues now.
Originally i got 4 x tyres of a mate(£100)new, 205/40/16.fronts are fine,although im gonna stretch some 195/40 on the rears for more low.I am also gonna flare the rears more to.maybe some camber if needed.
As for the steering,cant really feel any difference.
Pics as promised:







Car is no where finished until i get the look im after
