thanks guys, sorry about getting it mixed up as i was a previous mk3 driver! ill be changing it to the 4 lights asap them, anyone get one going with slam pannal?
best bet is sourcing all the bits in a scrappy, gives you chance to acquire all the correct bolts and fixings, and you can work out how it assembles together. its not difficult to remove all the parts; 2 screws on the grill (plus a handful of clips, be careful), unplug the spotlamps and pull the grill away, undo the radiator mount bolts (2 on top), 7 bolts hold the slam panel on (comes off complete with the horn and headlamps, dont forget the bolt in the centre behind the bumper) and lift it up and away. the bumper can stay in place. i did it 3 cars up in the local scrappy without falling off so its dead easy.

most second hand grills have broken clips though so be prepared to splash out on a new one.