It's quite a subtle colour, and it's more blue than Carbon Grey, but I agree I'd have preferred it slightly lighter and slightly more blue.
Look at it this way. Nine colours available. Six monochrome (black, white or grey/silver). One knock-your eye out red. And two very dark blues. Not much of a choice, really.
I've usually gone for metallic blues, and I didn't much like the Shadow Blue car I was shown by the dealer. Might have been wrong. The Blue Graphite is nice when it's clean and polished, which Prospero isn't at the moment!
My last car was a rather nice shade of gold, and although that was a Hobson's Choice situation as well, I liked it. I think the choice VW give us with the GTi is pathetic.
Rolfe.