reading that Top Gear review makes me think i bought the wrong car.... 
No you did not for all the reasons I mentioned earlier.
Now you'll probably get Bender Ben posting on this thread.
Be happy with an icon.
if the GTIs were 4WD i don't think i would mind so much, hot hatches are supposed to be mostly 2WD aren't they....
it's nice of you to say they are an icon, but i think only the mk1 and mk2 are the real icons, at least at the moment. the mk6 needs a few more years (probably at least 10!) before you could say it's an icon.
even if the current crop of Golfs turn out to be icons in the future, they all have the mk5 GTI to thank for it, it revived VW into being a big player in the hot hatch market.