if my opinion is worth anything around here, i don't think it looks that bad, it just looks like a normal Golf, the normal car looks reasonably pleasing. and it has that 'stealth' look that won't attract attention as much.
and it's your own car, you should just do what you want to do it. Does the opinion of others really matter that much? it's like if you asked me if a girl you fancied looked hot. to me the girl might look like a complete bag and i would say you should avoid her like the plague. But you might really fancy the girl and ignore my opinion and ask her for a date anyway, and you might have a really good relationship with her.